This is a photo of the old guy, Ellis, who was distracting me the other day!  He spent a lot of time in the U.S. and also was in Ontario about 50 years ago for military purposes.  Surprisingly, he can still speak English very well, but listening is another matter.  His wife lives in a city about an hour away.  Nihat said that his wife doesn't get along with him and left to live with one of her children because he still acts like a General ha ha.  We call him my boyfriend.